李玫瑾:如何培养孩子的自控能力

时间:2019-07-25 来源:www.24107.cn

So how do you develop your child's self-control ability so that they don't indulge in playing games?

In the near future, I met a lot of parents to talk about the child. The self-control ability is that I said that I was in the age of three, and you have to say no to him.

No, what do you mean? As long as I say this is stopping, you have to stop. He will know, ah~ I will not do this when I look at your face;

Then there is another one. When I talk about 3~6 years old, the character trains him to score 5 points. How many pieces of 5 points are accumulated? He can ask you to get what he wants when you are 6 years old. Before I developed such a habit, then he has a plan to do something behind him, then in this process, he will use this hard work to achieve my satisfaction, so this process is actually a step, the first step is not Do it well. The second step is very difficult to repair.

The child's ability to self-control has an important connection with the development of his behavioral habits. This is a gradual process, from small to large.

At this time, in the process of communication between the parents and the children, what kind of goals do you need to achieve, then what kind of norms and adjustments do you need to behave.

In fact, when you communicate with your child, you need to use the language that your child can understand. It is necessary to decide how to cultivate your self-control ability according to the child's cognitive rules and characteristics.

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